In a bustling cosmopolitan city like London, where opportunities abound and cultures collide, the dating scene can be exhilarating. However, it can also be overwhelming for single Gen Z and Millennial individuals as data would suggest. Check out a few eye-opening stats written by relationship experts and columnists here.
What is Sex Positivity, Anyway?
Sex positivity isn't just a buzzword; it's a liberating perspective that can transform your dating experience. It's about embracing a healthy, open, and respectful attitude towards your own and your partner's sexuality. In a diverse metropolis like London, understanding and celebrating our sexual diversity is paramount.
Why Sex Positivity Mattrs:
- Self-Exploration: London offers a vast array of experiences and cultures. Likewise, your dating journey should be a chance to explore your desires, boundaries, and what truly excites you.
- Consent is Key: Consent is not negotiable. It's a vital foundation for any intimate relationship. Always ask and respect each other's boundaries. Londoners understand that consent is the ultimate show of respect.
- Communication: In a city where languages, accents, and stories intertwine, open and honest communication is key. Talk to your partner(s), share your desires, and understand theirs. It's the secret to better intimacy.
- No Shame, No Judgment: London's vibrant and eclectic mix of cultures has taught us one thing – diversity is beautiful. There's no room for shame or judgment when it comes to your desires. Londoners know that your uniqueness is what makes you extraordinary.
Brand Partners:
At Mattr we are big champions of sex positivity therefore partnered with sexual wellness destination ‘SHE SPOT’ to not only educate but offer our users exclusive discounts to their array of sexual wellness products online. As part of our ‘Mattr Perks’ offering, all users can access exclusive discounts via the app. Sign up to Mattr today and receive 15% off your first order with SHE SPOT.
Want to learn a bit more about SHE SPOT, check out our collaborative post where we interviewed Co-Founder Kalila here.
Educational Yet Fun Tips:
- Protection Mattrs: Generally speaking Londoners are conscientious about their health, we’ve come a long way over the last 10 years largely due to the improvement and encouragement of having open and honest communication with our partners. Stay safe by using protection and getting regular check-ups. It's a sign of responsibility and self-care.
- It's a Journey, Not a Race: London is so fast-paced it's easy to rush. But remember, your sexual journey is personal. Enjoy every moment at your own pace, savour the experience.
- Consent Is Ongoing: Consent isn't a one-time thing; it's ongoing, enthusiastic, and affirmative. It's a commitment to each other's well-being and comfort.
- Join the Conversation: At Mattr our goal is to empower our community to be their true authentic selves without fear of judgement. Honesty, Safety, and Inclusivity is the new Sexy! We invite you to join the conversation, we want to hear your thoughts, experiences, or questions, hit us up on Instagram, we’re here to listen and support because your opinion Mattrs.
So, Gen Z and Millennials of London, remember, you're amazing just the way you are! Let's celebrate our diversity, empower ourselves, and make our dating experiences truly unforgettable. 🌆✨